The Desert of Arizona
Sunny 57 Degrees
Want more clients? Want more money? Want more time?
Are you sure?
We all know it’s hard to attract clients when you feel needy. But just because you get the clients, or get the money doesn’t mean the feeling goes away. Your mind tells you it will, if ONLY…
But that’s a lie. It’s a lie that controls you.
The feeling is separate from the circumstance.
Unfortunately, that puts the responsibility for whether or not that needy feeling is inside you squarely on your shoulders. Sorry. But it’s yours to deal with. The choice is to either carry it for the rest of your life or discover how to put it down and walk away.
Most people have this “needy” feeling pretty much all the time.
And like with many things, if MOST people are doing it, it’s probably wrong. But it’s not because people are dumb. People are scared. Ultimately, scared that it will be proven they are not enough. And fear like that makes people do dumb things. Often times it makes them betray themselves for their entire lifetime.
The cool part is that you can work through that feeling of need and get yourself to a state where you no longer broadcast a signal like that.
This isn’t a journey for the faint of heart. You’ll probably screw up a lot. You might have to start over a few times. I start over every single morning at about 4 AM. And it’s worth the trouble.
Because this is where true freedom lives. And there’s plenty of room for everyone.
So what if the secret isn’t to get what you want?
What if the secret is to want what you have?
When you achieve that, then our little friend “need” has to move out and find another home.