When You Don’t Know What You Want

The Desert of Arizona
Cloudy 48 Degrees – 10:16 a.m.

There’s nothing like the birth of a child to get you thinking about the responsibility that comes with helping another human being through this reality.

When you realize that a brand new baby like this already KNOWS everything you are working so hard to remember, a new item magically appears on your parental todo list:

Do everything in your power to allow that being to maintain the divine connection with herself.

People often ask me what I do to get such wonderful kids. My answer is always the same:

“Kids COME this way. I do my best NOT to screw them up. So I don’t ‘do’ anything, but the list is long of the things I try NOT to do.”

I’m not sure if you’ve ever had this moment in your life, but I have:

It’s the moment that you realize that almost everything you think, feel and do is controlled by B.S. data fed to you by someone ELSE.

This is true in life.

This is true in business.

What if everything you currently believe about what is possible for you is simply a byproduct of a program someone else gave you?

That’s enough to make your head spin. Or maybe it makes you angry.

I spent so many years pursuing things other people wanted for me, I totally lost the connection with what I actually wanted for me.

And then it got worse!

Because I thought “not knowing what I wanted” was the problem. But that wasn’t the problem.

The problem was I had no idea who I was. Oops.

What could I possibly do to help my new daughter not have to go through this?

I have one idea to offer her. And I plan to talk about it over and over again:

Pursue what you love, without exception.

If anything is worth risking everything for, THAT is it.